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The Live (Not Live) Hostful

Episode 76 of The Slow Home Podcast

I usually like to be a few weeks ahead of the posting schedule when it comes to our Thursday shows, but when Ben and I thought, ‘Yeah, let’s do a live Facebook video for this month’s hostful – it’ll be fun!” we weren’t expecting our horrible internet speeds to thwart us yet again.

But thwart us they did, and for that reason we found ourselves recording this month’s Q&A at 5:30 yesterday afternoon. Not particularly slow or intentional of us, I have to admit.

We do, however, answer some excellent listener questions, and cover topics including:

  • our thoughts on homework and after school activities
  • how we manage to find time for the experiments while also living a slower life
  • how we cope on those days that are just tough and nothing is going well at all
  • an insight into our daily rituals and routines
  • how to merge two households into one when there are vastly different approaches to “stuff”
  • why I stopped writing on the blog

Honestly, recording at 5:30PM on a Wednesday isn’t ideal, but in this largely unedited podcast we do give a pretty authentic view of what it looks like to balance work, family, self-employment, passion projects and slow living, and sometimes, it ain’t pretty!

For the most part though, I wouldn’t change a thing (except our internet speeds) and I really hope you enjoy these more candid conversations – interruptions and all!

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Most important of all, thanks for being here!

 

Meditation #4

Meditation #4 - The Slow Home Experiment

In last week’s episode I said that this meditation challenge has already been a life-changer, so it’s actually tough to top that pronouncement. Much like the sugar-free month back in February, this has already shifted from being an experiment, to a thing that I’m doing simply because the benefits are too great to ignore.

Ben’s experience, on the other hand, hasn’t been as clear cut. He’s battling time constraints and motivation, so in today’s episode we talk about the obstacles he’s been facing in daily meditation.

We also talk about what I actually see when I’m meditating, what I focus on and how I visualise the letting go of my thoughts. Keep in mind though, I am a huge novice so there may not be much wisdom there!

Before we wrap up the experiment next week I’d love to put together a list of resources, books, tips and suggestions for meditation, so if you have anything to share please pop it in the comments below and I’ll include it in next week’s wrap-up post.

Also, don’t forget, you can play along with us by tagging your social media posts with #slowhomeexperiment and sharing your experiences. Hit us up on Facebook, Twitter or Instagram and let’s get experimenting!

Enjoy!

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Head over to iTunes to subscribe to the show and play the episode.

Or you can listen to the show directly, simply by hitting the Play button above. Enjoy!

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Show notes:

Keep Listening:

Support the Show:

If you love the show and would like to show your support by becoming a patron, head over here to make a small monthly donation (as little as $1 a month) and know that any amount makes a huge difference to us being able to cover costs.

Most important of all, thanks for being here!

Slow Tech with Janell Burley Hoffman

Slow Tech with Janell Burley Hoffman - The Slow Home Podcast

One of the biggest tensions for me in slowing down is how to live mindfully with technology. Part of me feels I need to be anti-tech in order to do slow and simple “right”, but completely eschewing modern tech simply doesn’t appeal.

And the reality is that I wouldn’t have a job without modern technology. I wouldn’t have met some of my best friends. I wouldn’t have connected with so many of you, or heard the incredible stories you share, or be able to watch The Walking Dead. There wouldn’t be medical breakthroughs and sustainable energy and the ability to travel the globe. Modern tech has its issues, no doubt, but giving it up seems… extreme. And not realistic. And not fun.

In today’s episode I talk with Janell Burley Hoffman, an author, a technology coach and the creator of the Slow Tech Movement, and she drops some wisdom on me in how to shift from living mindlessly and in constant contact with technology, to living mindfully alongside technology.

We talk about establishing tech boundaries both for ourselves and our family, as well as creating time and space for play, nature, real-world connections and conversations and the mundaneness of life. Janell also has really practical insights into how to establish your family’s iRules and why these are just as (if not more) important for the adults in your home.

This episode is packed with practical advice, inspiration and a good dose of “do what’s right for you”, that will help you figure out the best approach to tech for you and your family.

Enjoy!

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Head over to iTunes to subscribe to the show and play the episode.

Or you can listen to the show directly, simply by hitting the Play button above. Enjoy!

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Show notes:

Keep Listening:

Support the Show:

If you love the show and would like to show your support by becoming a patron, head over here to make a small monthly donation (as little as $1 a month) and know that any amount makes a huge difference to us being able to cover costs.

Most important of all, thanks for being here!

 

Meditation #3

Meditation #3 - Episode 73 of The Slow Home Podcast

We’re only halfway through our meditation Slow Home Experiment and I’m calling it: this one is a life-changer.

I know that last week I mentioned how challenging I was finding the experiment, and how I felt like I’d been getting worse at meditation as opposed to better. But so many of you have been in touch to explain that this is quite normal and to encourage me to work through the frustrations, that my mindset shifted a lot this week and I am now loving even the most challenging parts of the experiment.

Rationally, I’ve always understood that meditation is good for us – taking time to just be, focusing on the breath, finding pockets of stillness – but practically I just never got into it. This experiment has given me an excuse to make time every day, and the benefits are already incredible.

No idea if this is related or not, but my skin is clearer, I look like I’m getting more sleep, I have way more energy and my mood and patience have improved significantly. Also, our home feels peaceful in a way that it hasn’t for a long time. The kids are content, there’s not as much sniping and complaining, we’re all going to bed earlier and sleeping better…

Again, this could all be coincidental or the result of a confirmation bias, but the reality is the last few weeks have been just so chill that it makes me wonder.

In this episode, Ben and I talk about the past week – what we did and didn’t like, what we’ve discovered and some of the wonderful tips you guys have been sending through.

I’m really, really enjoying the silent meditation using a timer and bells. In fact, I’ve been adding 5-10 minutes of it on the end of the guided meditations we’ve done this week simply because I’ve felt the need for some quiet mindfulness as opposed to the noise of a guided meditation.

This week I’ll likely do more of the silent meditations and fewer of the guided and see if my experience remains the same, while Ben is keen to mix it up some more.

I’d love to know how you’re finding the experiment too. Is it a positive experience? Are you finding it easier or harder than you’d anticipated? Do you prefer guided meditations or the silent ones? Let us know!

Don’t forget, you can play along with us by tagging your social media posts with #slowhomeexperiment and sharing your experiences. Hit us up on Facebook, Twitter or Instagram and let’s get experimenting!

Enjoy!

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Head over to iTunes to subscribe to the show and play the episode.

Or you can listen to the show directly, simply by hitting the Play button above. Enjoy!

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Show notes:

Keep Listening:

Support the Show:

If you love the show and would like to show your support by becoming a patron, head over here to make a small monthly donation (as little as $1 a month) and know that any amount makes a huge difference to us being able to cover costs.

Most important of all, thanks for being here!

Listener Chat with Juanita

Listener Chat with Juanita - The Slow Home Podcast

I’ve read a lot of wise things in books and on blogs. I’ve applied them to my life and seen the difference they can make. But some of the best advice I’ve ever gotten has been from friends and family. Conversations held over coffee or over wine (more of one than the other, let’s be honest), conversations held at the school gate or on our back deck – these are where I’ve gleaned the most useful insights into parenting, adulting and learning to find a sense of balance in life.

And it’s these insights – these hard-fought, battle-tested, real-world strategies I love uncovering in my Listener Chat episodes of the poggie, and this conversation is no exception.

Today I chat with Juanita, a mother of two from Sydney who sent me an email a couple of weeks ago, sharing some of her story which held a lot of similarities to my own.

Juanita was so open and honest with her answers, and we chat about the illness that laid her out for months last year, and her somewhat begrudging entry into slow living as a result. I also loved hearing about the decision to skip out on the busy Christmas season last year and the restorative road trip Juanita and her family took.

As an environmentalist, Juanita was further down the conscious consumption path than others may find themselves in the beginning, but it was the work she had to do to lower her standards and personal expectations that was the most challenging and definitely something I know a lot of people can relate to. (Which begs the question – why are we so hard on ourselves?)

I always feel incredibly privileged to have these conversations with pogpast listeners (and for those lovely people who have volunteered, I’ll be getting back to you soon!) and I hope you enjoy it as much as I did.

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Head over to iTunes to subscribe to the show and play the episode.

Or you can listen to the show directly, simply by hitting the Play button above. Enjoy!

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Show notes:

Keep Listening:

Support the Show:

If you love the show and would like to show your support by becoming a patron, head over here to make a small monthly donation (as little as $1 a month) and know that any amount makes a huge difference to us being able to cover costs.

Most important of all, thanks for being here!